The Story of the 32 Year Old Sex Newbie

According to a story in the news, there was a woman who was 32 years old and she hadn’t had sex before. It wasn’t due to the fact that she didn’t want to or that she was waiting for “the one.” It was due to the fact that trying to have sex or put anything in her snatch was so painful that she just never wanted to try it! She suffered from a difficult condition called “vaginismus” which sees the vagina clamping down hard and not wanted to let anything inside of it. Her boyfriends in the past apparently told her that trying to stick their dicks inside of her pussy was like hitting a brick wall. She couldn’t even use tampons or have a pap smear at the gynecologist because it was so painful.

After she tried having sex only a few times in her 20s, she gave up on ever having a pleasurable sex life. However, when she was 31 years old she finally went to a doctor, determined to fix her vagina. Throughout her 20s she went to different doctors who told her they couldn’t find anything wrong with her. One doctor did mention vaginismus but hadn’t heard of any cure for the condition. Finally she found a doctor who is a pelvic floor expert. This doctor specializes in helping women control their pelvic muscles. With only four months of physical therapy with this doctor, the woman was able to have sex for the first time!

The first two months of therapy consisted of relaxation and breathing techniques. Then the doctor started by inserting just a cotton q-tip into the vagina. Even that was hard at first. Eventually they worked themselves up to dilators which are basically dildos that can help to open up the vagina. The patient would also try these at home too. Finally after four months she was good enough that one night while she was making out with her hubby on the couch she asked him if he wanted to try to have sex and it worked. She was so excited that she gave her doctor the call that every pelvic floor therapist wants to hear! She got laid!

Soon the couple was fucking more, but apparently it took about a year before it started to feel really great and pleasurable. She was finally able to scratch that itch she just couldn’t quite get at from the outside. Karen, the patient in the story wants other women to know that there is a cure for this frustrating condition and that there is hope out there for those who want to have sex but can’t for one reason or another. Now Karen and her husband are trying to get pregnant every chance that they get, so they are using her new skill as often as possible. While sex might be taboo or not talked about by some people, it is something that everyone wants to do, and everyone who wants to should have the opportunity to do it!

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